9 years, and an engagement.

Dear Zonk, I got engaged yesterday. Officially. An actual ceremonial affair with 20-ish people in a lounge with a chunnar and tilaks and rings and everything. The rings were fucked up and have now been sent for repair. The lounge was nice. The people were lovely, and everyone had a nice time. And C and I blundered through the […]

Notes from my first ever longish trip to anywhere at all.

Dear Zonk, I didn’t blog at all while I was away, but here’s an unedited stream of things I thought at various points over the last 15 days. Philadelphia October 31st – November 4th It’s cold here. Not a biting, bone-chilling cold, but a thrilling this-is-pretty-cool sort of cold. Philly is way colder than the coldest winter […]